The spirit of The Nanjing School of Information and Technology I believe can only be summed up by the atmosphere and strong emotions experienced by those of us leaving the University.
Feelings of deep sadness for leaving our wonderfully close friends and colleagues balanced with the feeling of relief as the students (and I) were about to return home. I'm not sure I have ever witnessed such a mixture of emotions and such a dense atmosphere.
Saying goodbye to my Student Juicy (Left hand side) and her friend Pansy (Right)
Life is fragile - when I arrived at the University I knew it was at least 45 minutes from the town. But due to a falling out with my two best friends in the world; I had to start from scratch. Let me tell you, shock is something that seems to hit gradually harder as we get older. It was the last thing I was expecting.
Change is essential to every living thing, adapting and moving on. It is these changes that help us learn about the world and ourselves. Changes that seem to break us, but also give us new perspectives in life. A life that forces us to choose compromises, but also choose things that remain the same - that we can identify with.
Below I will do my best to introduce to you as many of the wonderful people I met at NUIST as I am able.
English corner was one of the many many activities that I enjoyed at NUIST.
Other activites included keep fit, open air swimming, ping pong, weightlifting and rollerblading.
Serena was one of the wonderful people I met while at English corner. Happiest when busy, Serena's willpower to overcome any obstacles impressed me so much. A typical Chinese girl (on the outside) Serena is made of metal - and that metal is gold.
My co-teacher Robert became one of my good friends and confidants, with whom I enjoyed many a game of golf, DVD and even shared rent on an outside room - which we rented to get round many of the intrusive rules enforced by the University.
Pictured left is my neat little hiding hole. The themed colour of my place was most definitely orange. I would like to thank Robert for his contribution to the place, and Zhu Dandan (Kathleen) for helping me buy the fridge, TV and mattress, and Yan Lin for taking me to the perfect place to buy the sofa and cupboard!
Yolanda and Robert enjoying Yolanda's birthday
Robert and Yolanda met at English corner. At Yolanda's birthday party, Robert so lovingly bought her flowers and a wonderful cake. We had a small party at mine - one of many parties I was priveledged to invite my friends to.
Kathleen, Juicy, Robert, Pan Zhou (Pansy) Serena Yolanda, Vilho and Janet; thank you for making my parties so enjoyable and so much fun.
2009 Christmas decorations at my apartment at NUIST
Christmas Songs -Wham - Last Chrismas
The Christmas party was accompanied by some decorations I bought locally, all my music and my Nintendo Wii - which we played bowling on during the party. Yolanda just kept beating all of us!